Tuesday, June 20, 2006

I just read this month's CLEO & one of the feature writes actually states that I'm a lousy friend. Well actually I knew that all ago. I'm surrounded by lots of aquaintances and no real true friends. But still I wanna give credit to people that have been in my life at some points or another.

Firstly, my bestest friend in primary school - Xueyan. She's a really likeable friend. At one point of time, she was even the class monitress. She was my classmate in Primary 3 when I switched to another class. I wasn't even close to her @ that time. I only really actually talked to her when both of us were going to the prize presentation cos we came in 1st and 2nd respectively in our class. Then we got into the same primary 4 class and we became the best of friends. Of course, along the way, 2 other gers (Sherry & Qiujin) came along and we came to call ourselves the "Ninja Turtles". Times were really fun. Then the 2 of us went to another class and remained close. Being an amiable person, many people wanted to be close to her. Hence in our last 2 years of primary school, 2 other gals ( Shuhui & Catherine) joined us and we were always seen together. We called ourselves "Dong Fang Si Xia". We did simple stuff but we're always so happy. But things changed when we moved on to secondary school. I still travelled to her house to meet up with her and made it a point to call her everyday, but the idea was not reciproated. She wanted to be wif her new frens. Hence I let her go...

In primary 3, I had a fren called Lifang. By right, she should have been my closest fren since I knew her the longest. But I was fickle. We went through primary sch, secondary sch & even college together. We were close in Pri 3 when we had our weekly visit of the library but that remained as that.

I had this other close guy friend whom I still felt close to even after so long - Jingbing. We were classmates in Pri 5 & 6 and we only became close after he brought his sister to join us ( Dong Fang Si Xia) on one of our science centre trips. We would talk on the phone at night, even in sec school and in college. There was even once when my mother became so paranoid that she picked up the phone and screamed @ us to put it down. Haha... I'm quite surprised why we didn't become a couple, but I think I liked him more as a fren. He's also known as Mister Nice Guy cos he does a lot of things for me & the gals. But secretly I think it's me & for the other gals, it's more of on the way.
We're not exactly in touch now but I know that whenever either one of us needs help, the other one would readily oblige. I also hope that I'll be there for his wedding...

I'll blog about another important person in my sec sch life, May, later on.

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