Interesting but true observation

A friend suddenly texted me the following.

"你不是不惹人心疼，相反的，你让人非常想怜惜你。
可是你很逞强~~所以拒绝人家对你的爱护~~
矛盾的是，你也希望有人可以照顾你..."

I'm pretty amazed at how his observations are so spot-on. I know it's always me who denies everything.